Category: Musings

Not Broken Enough to Fix: My First Real Lesson in Accepting Limitations

I slid inside the off-white cylinder of the MRI machine, feeling an odd kinship with my infant daughter’s diaper cream.  The anticipated claustrophobia never materialized, but the technician forcibly reminded me of our age gap when the classic …

Small Tests, Big Rot

I stared at the slow cooker, vexed.  The mishmash of seasonings, broth, and chicken bubbled away, ignorant of the tragedy it unwittingly participated in.  I looked at the clock and frowned, hoping daylight savings had struck early this …

Seven Layers Deep: Understanding Your Life Through Bean Dip

You’re trapped at a mind-numbing party, and it’s as exciting as listening to your spouse retell the same story for the 389th time. The guests bore you more than reading your friend’s fanfic, the 2010s-era playlist grates like …

Mud, Blood, and Life Lessons: My First Mountain Biking Crash

“This is not ideal,” I thought as I catapulted over my bike’s handlebars into the creek below. Time crawled as I plummeted off the small bridge, the three-foot drop now looking like a stunt jump from a Tom …

Board Game Theory: Winning at the Games of Life

Before we had children and lost all control over our lives, my wife and I enjoyed playing board games together. Our personal philosophies on those games, however, differs somewhat. While she plays to have a pleasant evening with …

The Monsters in Our Closets: A Grown-Up’s Guide to Conquering the Unknown

I stare at the cracked closet door in our bedroom night after night.   That slight gap—maybe five inches wide—between door and frame haunts me more than I’d care to admit.   My wife often reminds me I’m a grown …

The Magic and Mastery of Brandon Sanderson’s Writing Universe

To say Brandon Sanderson is a prolific author does him a disservice.  His most recent book, Wind and Truth, comes in at 1,344 pages.  That brings the series the book is a part of—the Stormlight Archives—up to 5,890 …

On Christmas (2024)

‘Tis the season, as it were.  A time of joy and hope, prayer and merriment.  The Christmas season is one many of us cherish, and for good reasons.  But as I sat down to consider what it means …

Lessons from Sue the T-Rex: Why We All Need Moments of Wonder

Last week, I went to Chicago’s Field Museum to visit Sue the Tyrannosaurus Rex.  Did you know it’s the most complete T-Rex skeleton ever found?  Or that one of the only artificial parts of the skeleton on display …

Our Love is Radioactive: Why Love Needs More Control Rods and Less Firewood

In the yonder days of the internet, there was a brief moment where people realized potatoes make a better metaphor for love than roses.  When I first heard this, it opened up a world of terrible metaphors and …